Holding the tension: Watching the super bowl with my white family

Holding the tension: Watching the super bowl with my white family

by guest blogger Amanda Hambrick Ashcraft Along with 101 million others, we had the Super Bowl on our television last Sunday.   During the pre-game, I was startled to see the Black National Anthem, “Lift Every Voice and Sing,” performed.   As…

When children encounter racism: A story I grew up hearing

When children encounter racism: A story I grew up hearing

by Sachi Feris When I was little, we almost never talked about race. But there is one story my mom told more than once about her mother, Rose. Though I never met my grandmother Rose, I “remember” her through stories….

Stories that hold trauma: Considering when/how to tell children

Stories that hold trauma: Considering when/how to tell children

by Sachi Feris I must have been around sixteen because my grandmother, Mary, died a few months after my seventeenth birthday. She was sitting at the far, right corner of the dining table, where my mom usually sat. More often,…

Writing for your children: Storytelling to support racial identity development

Writing for your children: Storytelling to support racial identity development

by Sachi Feris I hung on to my high school copy of “We Are the Stories We Tell” for years. From my earliest memories, the question, “Who Am I?” called to me, beginning a life-long process of considering my identity…